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Crystal Oracle Reading (Selenite & Self-Love)

A message from Selenite on opening yourself up to more love, especially self-love (Intuited by Kallissa Kristine Swann)

A message from Selenite on opening yourself up to more love, especially self-love (Intuited by Kallissa Kristine Swann)

To open yourself to receive more love, it’s important that you connect with and cleanse your crown chakra. Open up to the powerful gifts – including love – that the Universe is giving you. Connecting with your spirituality and the Divine will help you be more comfortable receiving love from yourself and others.

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A Great Tip from Elizabeth Harper for New Years

I got an email from Elizabeth Harper from Sealed With Love that had an AWESOME suggestion for New Years.

Let me start by saying that I realllly don't like resolutions. To me, they feel like they're destined to fail a few days into them.

But this suggestion from Elizabeth has me intrigued! Directly from her newsletter...

"My husband, a life coach, always writes a letter at the end of the year congratulating himself on his achievements. But it's not for things he's achieved in 2017. Instead, it's coming from his FUTURE SELF at the end of 2018, so he's essentially anticipating his achievements."

This is GREAT because it's not a resolution. It's more intentional and opens up the Law of Attraction! You attract what you focus on.

I'm gonna give it a try! Will you too? Let me know in the comments!

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I’m on Etsy again! And now shipping worldwide!

I took some time away from Etsy as I launched my website. But now my shop is back! 

My website is still up-and-running, and my prices are less expensive at

But now you can order your Pleasure Pendants at and the SadSelfie Greeting Cards with matching art at all in one fell swoop!

Check out my Etsy shop at

And because of Etsy, I can sell worldwide super easily! Which is how my jewelry is now on its way to GERMANY!!! How freakin' cool is that?! Clearly, I'm very excited!  😉

Thank YOU, my lovely Passionista, for being part of my mission to celebrate sex, bodies, and consent!


Kallissa Kristine

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What are YOU committing to in 2018?

I've been listening to you, my lovely Passionistas, and I have been hearing something common amongst you all.

You are looking to be more self-loving. Self-accepting. Authentically YOU.

That's why I'm committing to making 2018...
the Year of Authenticity!

Say it with me:

Believing in & following my inner truth helps me live an authentic & empowered life.

Print this affirmation and put it around your house! I have one on my bathroom mirror and on my desk. 💖


As part of the Year of Authenticity (YOA), I commit to sharing weekly love letters with you that will include tips, freebies, and jewelry packages to help YOU live your life authentically and passionately!

Here are a few things I have in mind...

  • Tips on opening yourself to more love - from yourself and from others
  • Tips on feeling confident in your body and in your sexuality
  • New additions to the already beloved Pleasure Pendants
    • Crystal Chakra Readings, which can help you enhance any area of your life from your career to finances to sex
  • Personalized Goddess Healing Jewelry based on your Crystal Chakra Readings
    • Peeps in my VIP e-Club will be the FIRST to know when this offer is available

That’s my hot list.

I’d love to know YOUR big plans for this year. Comment and tell me:

This year, I am totally committed to ___ and I am SO excited about ___.

I can't wait to hear from you!

XXXO, Kallissa Kristine
P.S. Join my VIP e-Club, Crystal Passions, for a little somethin'-somethin' to kick your YOA off with a BANG!

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Food for Thought from #SexWeCan

Sex We Can! An Erotic Uprising

is Sex-positive Theater for Consenting Adults...

Coming to the Clinton Street Theater in PDX as part of the Fertile Ground Festival, Sex We Can! An Erotic Uprising features 18 different performers sharing their personal stories and experiences with empowered sexuality in a 2-hour theater event. There will be 8 performances between January 25th and February 14th.

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What does your ideal 2018 look like?

With the coming new year...'s a great time to reflect on how things went this year and what we want next year to be like.

I want 2018 to be a wonderful year for all of us! I want it to be passionate and magical, and I want us all to be free to be authentically ourselves!

So, I've created my Pleasure Proclamation to be a great reminder of the year I want to create. And now I want to share it with you!

Tell me!

What does your ideal 2018 look like? REPLY in the comments below to let me know. 

XXXO, Kallissa Kristine
P.S. The 23% off discount at by KK Swann ends when the ball drops on Sunday (in the Pacific Time Zone). Take advantage before the clock stops ticking... Use code DEC23 at

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Winners of Dick the Halls

"My Dick the Halls necklace is probably now my favorite holiday accessory. 😍 It brings a smile to my face; it's festive, silly, and beautifully crafted. It's a conversation starter, sparking a long conversation with my partner and me about sex shaming, race and hypersexualization, and modesty. It's a great not always so sneaky way to push sex positive topics into the conversation. Pleasure Pendants would be the ultimate gift for someone who teaches sex education, like me! Or who just loves genitals...also like me! 😘🍆🍑"



"Santa came early to my house! EEK!! The whole package was everything I needed to finally get into the Christmas spirit. Now that I put it on I don't want to take it off. Thanks for all the extras too. This necklace will be cherished for years to come. Hopefully passed on to the next generation. I love it!"



"My snowman is so cute! He makes me happy! And I get so many compliments - everyone loves him. Pleasure Pendants are the ultimate gift for anyone who is comfortable with their sexuality and appreciates intimate art! 💞"


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Mantras for the Root Chakra

I'm putting together 7 mantras for each of the main 7 chakras!

What do you think of the first set? Let me know in the comments!


The universe provides me with the things I need.

I am safe, secure, and protected.

I claim my good health and happiness.

I am grounded in and connected to the earth.

I am completely present in my body.

Every cell in my body is filled with power and energy.

I trust that my life unfolds the way it's supposed to.

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The dawn of my Crystal Chakra Jewelry

So I did a Crystal Chakra Reading for Leyla, and I designed a Color Therapy necklace for her based on her reading! 🌈

Her reading showed she really needed to balance her heart and throat chakras, so I used green & blue beads to resonate with this. I also added clear beads to bring in energy from her crown chakra. And I used silver beads and wire to bring in energy from the Divine Feminine & the faeries. 💖

I also consulted my guides, her guides, and the faeries to design her necklace and create an affirmation specifically for her! Then I Reiki-charged her necklace and set the intention of the jewelry to bring her affirmation to life for her. 🌱

Want a customized Color Therapy necklace for yourself? Join my VIP e-Club to get first dibs when they launch! 🎁

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How to Release Empathic Guilt with 3 Simple Steps

I’m an empath. This is a gift I’m still trying to figure out.

I recently learned an important lesson that I think anyone, especially my fellow empaths, can relate to.

You may know that one of my brothers, James, was diagnosed with brain cancer a couple of years ago. I live 1,500 miles away from him and his family.

You may also know that my older sister, Dawn, died earlier this year. She left behind a 14 year-old daughter, Lucy, who I’m very close to. (She is 15 now and lives with my mom, her grandma.) I live 1,100 miles away from them.

Lately, I’ve been really worried about my brother and thinking about all of the emotions he, his wife, and their 5 kids must be experiencing. And of course, I’m also really worried about Lucy and all of the emotions and grief she’s been going through with losing her mom.

As an empath, I’ve been feeling all of these emotions very deeply, and they’ve caused me great anxiety and had my mind running a thousand miles a minute!

I should be closer to family. I should be there to help take care of Lucy and lend support to James and his family. I could move back, but everyone is in different places now, so it’d be hard to help them all out. If I moved, I’d have sooo much to think about and do! What about a place to live? What about my cats and boyfriend? What about a car and furniture? What about…AGH!

My head — and my heart — have been reeling!

After talking everything out with my one of my best friends, I finally realized…I’ve been experiencing empathic guilt!

Ya know, when you feel like you should be doing things for everyone else and end up neglecting yourself.

I had to remind myself that I won’t be good support for my family if I don’t take care of myself. It’s like the airplane thing where they tell you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others. If I uproot my life to be near them, it’d be like shirking my oxygen mask. I’d end up depleted, run-down, frustrated, and likely, angry. Then what good would I be to them?

There’s always an alternative solution that will help you take care of yourself and lend support to others. It may take time to figure out what that solution is, but it’s there.

In my case, the alternative is planning trips to see family around the same time every year. In between those trips, I’ll video chat with them. This will offer them support and show them that I care, and it will keep my life in Portland, where I’m happy to be.

Thankfully, I was able to pull myself out of my whirlwind of emotions with the help of my friend and some rational thinking (which is hard to come by sometimes, I know!).

The next time you find yourself swirling down the black hole of empathic guilt like I was, follow these steps:

And tell me, have you experienced empathic guilt? How did you handle it? Let me know in the comments. 💖


Kallissa Kristine